03.24.2009

THE SEDUCER’S NOT E B OOK: SEX & YOUR HOME

You need your home to look attractive too so you feel proud when your guest comes calling. Can’t afford the home decor you yearn for? Choose some splashes of happy colours as accents in the meantime. Something as simple as a vase of flowers or new and colourful cushions, will make you look and feel confident. Having a completely bland colour scheme doesn’t send a sensual message about you.

Keep your home clean and tidy. Nothing turns off a potential partner faster than messiness, so get rid of clutter and dirt. This will give you a great sense of freedom and clarity as though a load has been lifted. The truth is, it has. Clean it up, brighten it up and watch your spirits and confidence soar.

Develop your tactile ability and identify the feelings of touch you enjoy most. Touch surfaces, fabrics and furniture, not only people. After you have cleaned your home for your guest, touch ornaments, touch furniture surfaces, feel your towels and feel your sheets and pillow cases. Derive pleasure from feeling the differences. Which ones appeal? Run your hands over surfaces and objects. Enjoy the variety of warmth and cool as well as hard, soft, slippery, smooth, and textured.

The smell of your home, your kitchen, your bathroom and eventually your bedroom are indicators of your sensuality as well. Clean, fresh and natural smells are enticing. Air your home just one key fragrance at a time so you don’t confuse the senses. Florals in summer and spring and something more aromatic or regularly. Having a fragrant home is appealing and you may decide to use potpourri or oil burners using essential oils throughout your home. If you do, choose spicy for autumn and winter is a good way to go. Fresh flowers with an attractive perfume are always a winner as well. According to Feng Shui, fragrance in a home creates good chi or energy.

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